You all know about my anxiety issues with regards to being in public with a lot of people, especially men. It's paralyzing sometimes and it's also something that I just have to deal with if I want to earn a living or go out to get anything. I usually go out with Rei when I'm not working and she will rip the throat out of anyone that would try to hurt me or verbally tear apart rude, ignorant people. She makes me feel safe outside. :)
I don't have that luxury here at work. I feel comfortable and safe here, except for when men come in and stare at me like I'm a booby buffet. I have to go out and do things sometimes, too, and that makes me uneasy. I'll go pick up lunch if everyone wants to eat here (we take turns) or I'll have to go pick up or drop something off at the post office or go get something that we've run out of and need that day.
I went to go pick up a big lunch order a little while ago and it's a place we frequent, so they always get our order ready as fast as possible and they rarely screw up. It went fine as always, the little old Italian lady that runs the place likes me and we chatted for a minute, then I brought the food to my car and put it on the backseat nice and organized.
When I was getting in my car to go back, a woman darted across the parking lot and grabbed some kid who couldn't have been more than 15-16 and took the phone he was walking away with out of his hand. She had him by the back of the neck and she started walking him towards me.
Her (to kid): Say you're fucking sorry and delete it!
Kid (now getting his arm nearly snapped in two): Sorry! *Tears*
Her: I just watched this little fuck take pictures of you.
Me: Oh... Thank you for letting me know!
The kid didn't mind looking up my skirt, but he couldn't look me in the face. The woman who brought him over gave me his phone and told me she'd hold him until I was sure everything was gone. I deleted everything and then decided to be a bitch and just deleted everything else and restored it to the factory default! hehe!
Me: Here, you've got a brand new phone now! :)
Him: What the fuck!?
*Lady shoves him and he stumbles and runs off*
This woman was my guardian angel for the day, I think! :) She told me her name was Shannon and that she's had that done to her before. She's an Iraq war veteran and the prettiest soldier I've seen! <3 I must have thanked her 30 times and I gave her a big hug, then she reminded me that my food was getting cold. lol I told her about where I work and if she needed a dress, I'd get her a deal.
I told Janice about my savior and she said that if Shannon comes in, it's on her. She's very big on supporting the troops and donates to things like Wounded Warrior Project all the time. Two of her sons are in the military also.
I don't have that luxury here at work. I feel comfortable and safe here, except for when men come in and stare at me like I'm a booby buffet. I have to go out and do things sometimes, too, and that makes me uneasy. I'll go pick up lunch if everyone wants to eat here (we take turns) or I'll have to go pick up or drop something off at the post office or go get something that we've run out of and need that day.
I went to go pick up a big lunch order a little while ago and it's a place we frequent, so they always get our order ready as fast as possible and they rarely screw up. It went fine as always, the little old Italian lady that runs the place likes me and we chatted for a minute, then I brought the food to my car and put it on the backseat nice and organized.
When I was getting in my car to go back, a woman darted across the parking lot and grabbed some kid who couldn't have been more than 15-16 and took the phone he was walking away with out of his hand. She had him by the back of the neck and she started walking him towards me.
Her (to kid): Say you're fucking sorry and delete it!
Kid (now getting his arm nearly snapped in two): Sorry! *Tears*
Her: I just watched this little fuck take pictures of you.
Me: Oh... Thank you for letting me know!
The kid didn't mind looking up my skirt, but he couldn't look me in the face. The woman who brought him over gave me his phone and told me she'd hold him until I was sure everything was gone. I deleted everything and then decided to be a bitch and just deleted everything else and restored it to the factory default! hehe!
Me: Here, you've got a brand new phone now! :)
Him: What the fuck!?
*Lady shoves him and he stumbles and runs off*
This woman was my guardian angel for the day, I think! :) She told me her name was Shannon and that she's had that done to her before. She's an Iraq war veteran and the prettiest soldier I've seen! <3 I must have thanked her 30 times and I gave her a big hug, then she reminded me that my food was getting cold. lol I told her about where I work and if she needed a dress, I'd get her a deal.
I told Janice about my savior and she said that if Shannon comes in, it's on her. She's very big on supporting the troops and donates to things like Wounded Warrior Project all the time. Two of her sons are in the military also.
Smokey is hanging out here today! :) My Batman cardigan is on because it is FREEZING in here! It's not that warm today and the AC is on its lowest setting, but I feel like it's January. What do you mean "What cardigan"!? *Looks down* Oh, right...
I love these knee-highs and I should've heel kicked that pervert! There is an "Upskirting Law" here that makes it an arrestable offense and it results in fines and occasionally jail. He's one lucky boy.
Hope everybun is having a nice day!
XOXO
♥Lacey♡
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Shannon is my new heroine. She is amazing. I've never even met that woman, and I fucking love her. I hope she does come in for a dress. I'm glad you're okay and that little fuck got EXACTLY what he deserved. Good on you for wiping his phone! I do not blame you one bit for your social anxiety. I've had days when I couldn't go certain places (various reasons, including anxiety). I love you, and I'm glad you're safe! *hugs tight*
ReplyDeleteI hope so, too! I can't believe I didn't even see the little bastard! I'm usually very careful in short skirts, too, but he managed to get a few good shots. The one day I wear a thong... *Sigh* I will let her know that she's got an admirer in you and I'm sure Rei, also, if I see her again. I can't wait for you to teach me self-defense, even if it's only a little. Therapy is helping, but that might be a huge step forward. Thank you, Adra! Love you much! XOXO ♥♥♥
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