Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Rei update.

I was starting to get a little (K, A LOT!) worried before we left this morning. Nothing I could do would make her smile. Sex stuff, jokes, trying to be overly cute, she was stone faced. She finally cracked when I was helping her into the car. I didn't even really do anything. She just looked at me, smiled and told me she loved me then gave me a kiss. <3 

Cathy lives in Hanover which is a bit of a trip from our place, but I just wanted her safe. I would have taken her anywhere after seeing how bad she was this morning. Cathy was waiting for us and she came out to the car and had Juliet in her arms, I thought it was incredibly sweet. Rei hugged that cat like it was her child. We got her inside and Cathy had made us coffee and breakfast. Rei ate a little, but mostly just sipped the coffee.

I stayed a while but I had to haul ass to this place and open it. Not sure why, there hasn't been anyone but us employees here today. A couple phone calls, one of which was a drunk guy that dialed the wrong number. lol Cathy called to tell me that she and Rei had talked and talked, and that she would be getting what Rei had demanded if she had to sue her ex to get it. Rei is sleeping now and hopefully she'll feel better when she wakes up. If she's still in a bad frame of mind, Cathy wants her to stay there tonight. That's ok with me, because I don't know how I'd react if she tried to hurt or kill herself. I've heard the hospital stories and how much she hates them. I don't want her mad at me for putting her there. And even if she didn't get mad, I'd be upset with myself. Cathy is much more experienced with this stuff.

If it seems like I'm ignoring the issue at hand, I am. Rei's son and her dad are not my business to speak of online or anywhere else. I'm holding my tongue on the matter, hard as that may be. I don't even bring it up in private unless she wants to talk about it.

I will post more if anything changes.


Too much cleavage? No?


How 'bout now? Haha! For you, Rei! <3 One more remark from this cow, Karen, and it's time to go postal...

We'll bunk in the nuthouse, babe! XOXO




3 comments:

  1. I am so glad she has you. I am so grateful. I really am. Thank you so much for being there and loving her and taking care of her. <3 Your wonderful self is fantastic in so many ways. I also must say that I wish I owned basically everything in your wardrobe. That shirt is fantastic. I'm horribly bloated from this Prednisone. I think I've gained like 10 pounds of water weight basically overnight. My abdomen is so distended that I can't bend over and still be able to breathe. Fucking drugs. Thank you for keeping me updated on our girl. xo

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  2. You're making my makeup run! <3 I'm so happy that I can make a difference in someone's life. She is special in so many ways and it's tragic that this is happening to her. I wish I had an ounce of her fortitude, because I would have crumbled years ago. I'm in this forever now and there's nothing that will chase me away from my Rei. I'm still learning about a lot of her issues and I can get a little flustered, but that's just part of the experience.

    And thank you so much! I would send you stuff I don't wear, but you might have to take a few spins in the dryer to wear them. The Incredible Shrinking Adra! lol I hate water weight! *Gets a pin* Tell me when you're ready! :p XOXO *hugs*

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  3. If only!! Pop this water balloon! lol God I can't wait to get rid of this shit and back to my normal self. Actually, once I get back to my normal size, there's a chance I could wear some of it. I usually wear a small on top, except for the ahem, girls. That gets stretched a bit, but Rei tells me you have the same problem. :p I wish we wore the same shoe size! I could send you shoes.

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